open your eyes..

I wish some times people that know wouldnt have to get hurt ,only if they would open there eyes ..they could see something better is in front of them..its like there asking to be hurt..but then again,ive been there so many times even when people told be to open them i still refused to see the truth.I guess where all suppose to go through stuff in our lives to learn not to repeat the same mistake.But on the other hand some just keep repeating the problem and ask why does this keep happing ?..duh did you not learn from the first time? life shows you so much,why cant you take from it and learn from it,instead of crying why me?